I was thinking about this yesterday so I'll just throw it out there to see what you think. Instead of thinking about what is wrong and what needs to be fixed can't you think about what was or is right and build off of that?
I was thinking about my sitch and I was going around and around about what was wrong with me, with her, with our R. So, being that that wasn't working or helping, I decided to think about what was right, what was working.
Well, right now in my current sitch, not much is going right in our R. But, thinking back to when we first met and started dating I could see a lot of things that were right and were working. Now I just need to see a way to bring that back into my R.
That's where the DB comes in I think. It is what I hope will give me my second chance to bring our R back to life. I am looking at it like it's CPR for my R. Don't know if I'll be able to revive it, but I have to give it a try.
What I'm saying is that instead of focusing on the negative I'm trying to focus on the positive.
So what do you think? Does this kind of make any sense or am I just rambling?
"Our life is what our thoughts make it."
Marcus Aurelius
