Thanks for the great advice KAW. I realize those thoughts are very unproductive and I am trying to purge them from my system. It just isn't happening very easily today. My PMA goes away more than I would like and gets replaced by anger and resentment. Mostly resentment. Believe me that I know how bad this is and soon that part of me that wants to strangle her will go away. I get down the most when I am tired and oh am I tired. It was a long and fun weekend but now I am paying. There are a lot of details which bother me that I don't have the energy to share here. Just little things that add up to bother me like going places that she went to with her "friends", etc. I don't say anything about this stuff to her and won't but she had no problem taking me to a restaurant for our Ann. that I know she went to with a "friend". To me that is just plain inconsiderate. Anyway, I am just wasteing time on something that I need to put behind me.
