T-bone, You are not wrong to want to hear ILY from your wife! Everyone wants that. Some of us get it and some of us don't. Look how long Andy had to wait. SHe is moving forward, so it may happen in time. WE want what we want NOW, and it does not work that way in this stuff. My H is flashing back to his youth. Mattie said he may. He's smoking, not wearing his seatbelt, acting reckless like he did as a teen. I have to be patient and wait for him to go through this period. It's not easy. You just wonder WHY do they have to go through all this crap, and why do we put up with it? Because we love them. Rachael M.
