T-bone-Most women would kill for those kinds of things but you have to remember you are not dealing with "most women", you are dealing with your W. Does she like those kinds of things? I read once that we love our S the way WE want to be loved. We need to love then the way THEY need it. I think the flowers are a nice gesture,but I'd slow down just a tad bit and see how it pans out. ya know-too much of a good thing and all. I'd feel it out. See what happens with the first time you give her something. If she is thrilled, I'd still wait awhile. If she is not as thrilled as you'd like her to be its about her-not you , and I'd slow way down. Now as you know, I'm NO expert at this stuff, BUT, I do know that when Adrian and I first got back together I got him a card and left it inside his desk. I came back the next day to see it in the trash-not out on display where I would have put it if it were me. He read it and obviously did not think much of it.I had yet to show him by actions. SO...I did not do that again until several months later-just recently I bought him card blank inside so I could write my own words-thanking him for supporting me emotionally (act as if) and financially(he does do that)and ,most of all for loving me. I left this one on his dresser at home-not at work. He read it and said "your welcome". I really wanted him to know I appreciated him. Still no huge response, but talk is cheap. Actions speak louder than words. They want action. The kind of action that attracts us to them. DO more of what your doing because it seems to be working. Try the other but don't get freaked out f she does not get as excited as if the tables were turned and she was gving it to you. I have yet to recieve flowers from Adrian. He knows I love to get them. When he finally does give them to me I know it will be totally because he wanted to do it for me, I have thought about dropping hints,but what good is it if you have to ask for it? Take it slow, and don't get discouraged. Maybe she'll surprise you-she's been doing alot of that lately. Rachael M.
