I keep getting the same advice that I give. Just enjoy what you have and don't read too much into things. I am working on that. I am also not trying to place so much emphasis on the Anniv. I can't help it that I am romantic and thrive on these sorts of days. Today is actually the 12th anniv. of the day we met. I wrote her a short letter acknowledging that fact and talked about our wedding day and the birth of our S. I plan on picking up a dozen flowers to go with it. I know she won't be expecting it. We already agreed to not buy anything big for each other. We have several fun days planned so that will suffice. I still picked up a couple of different cards to give to her at different times during the celebration. I hope she doesn't feel overwhelmed but I always do these things. Any thought on whether I am "overdoing it"?
