I don't have a lot to say. It seems most of the sitch's on this board are moving forward. That is very nice to see. My sitch is no different. The past two weeks have been darn near perfect. This past weekend was absolutely incredible. Lots of fun times with the kids and by "ourselves" .
I think my W MLC is over but I still have my fingers crossed. Her selfishness has lessened dramatically and instead of bringing out the worst in one another we are bringing out the best. We taught the engagement enrichment class on Saturday and that went very well. The couples really appreciated our "honesty" and real life stories.
I wish I could give out the formula that helped OR work but I have no idea what turned it around. It was a back and forth process for awhile but I think the "backslides" are done. The biggest factor is that she "chose" to change her behavior. It was her choice to help me stop the downward spiral and turn it around. Most of you have read my threads so you can make your own assessments. All I know is that I am a very lucky man who is very happy right now.