Glad to hear your weekend went so well. Mine was very good too. I put myself through a little test this weekend. One of my W "friends" offered to help us work on the house this weekend. We accepted and everything went great. We got a lot of work done and he and I had some really nice conversations. May be this is real evidence that my W contact with these "friends" was just "an outlet" for her. The only weird part was that she really didn't know that much about him. I asked her a few things before he got there so I wasn't completely in the dark on this guy. All I knew is he sends very funny joke e-mails to my W and she forwards them to me. All I can say is I wasn't going to let it get to me and he worked very hard. He actually stayed over and was working by 6:30 a.m. Sunday morning before I was even awake. My W actually initiated Sunday a.m. even with him staying at the house. I know it sounds very strange but it was a very comfortable weekend. I guess life is mind over matter. It also helped my PMA alot that he was balding and overweight. Actually, he and I talked about going hunting together this fall. Think what you want of the sitch, but I think this was another positive step for us.