Cat03,
Thanks for your thoughts and replies...

oh hon, you are splitting hairs hon, the answer is most likely #1.
I sort of knew it, but guessed just need some reassurance!!

Oh man, I'd love for my H to offer one of those @#$@# nightly.
Shucks...none of those yesterday...nor today... unfortunately it's the time of the month!! Shuck!!!

Now that things have gotten better you are nitpicking at tiny crumbs left-over from ow, let it go girl.
This is VERY VERY true.. Yes. Will let it go...

Journalling..
Actually, H called me about 5 minutes ago again. It's the third time he called me since he left for work, 4 hours ago. That's not bad, huh??

It will be brighter with each day!!!