I would like to just say I admire your strength and will think of you when I get upset RE : "OW" ....
My H mentions her very little only really when his sister ((my SIL)) goes to see her as they are friends,, AND NEVER DOE SHE TRY TO DIRECTLY MENTION HER BUT HE ACTS LIKE IT IS NO BIG DEAL. I do not into a tail spin but it hurts none the less,,,, WHAT I have found is that my H comes off as arrogant when he mentions her a little ,, is arrogance for me and for him he is showing me he is indifferent and she is just another person. ( he himself said this)
...he explained to me she means NOTHING to him and he loves ME!!!
My H also said "I always loved you..." to me,,,
YOYO you are soooooo strong to be so calm and trusting. I need to get there. I also need to let her go, funny I have held onto her longer than their "R" even lasted.
Thank you for your inspiring post,, keep being the STRONG ,AMAZING ,BEAUTIFUL WOMAN that you are. I for one am inspired.... God bless...
