Wow.. have not been to the BB for a couple of weeks and the site has changed! Have to say that it looks nice!
Cat03 - Well..think your H knows you sooooo well that he knows you are capable to do things for yourself. As for the ow, she probably portrays herself as a helpless damsel in distress that needs him to do everything..and he is like the knight in shining armour. Sorry, sista..don't think you can try that on him because he knows you too well already.
Things are going okay in my sitch. H and I did squabble alittle bit a few days ago because he was supposed to be leaving for Europe for work, and I expected Assurances etc etc... and we started arguing. H kept on saying "get it into your thick head that you are here now!!" He's fed up of me interrogating him..Well. I did. I asked if she was gonna meet him there etc. I know I know..I have to BANISH the b!tch out from our M and not to mention her again!!!! We always argue when I have my insecurities. Told my mom about this and she scolded me. Said "Not only he gets fed up. I hear it now and I am fed up"... One thing that I found out in our recent argument was that ow actually comes over to Country X every fortnight.. It did explain why he needed to remain friends with her. I was thinking..it must be bl@@dy hard for H to tell her "Err.. you don't have to come here to see me anymore. I am getting back with my wife, and my family is moving here". H must feel rather awful about this. BUT the thing that I don't understand is WHY the H@LL she would want to talk to him? If I were her, I would not want to have anything to do with him, right?? I would be thinking, he promised to marry me, said he love me, and now he is dumping me!!! So, I think she thinks that she could still be with him some day???? Shucks.. no point thinking so much about this... Forget it YOYO...Move on..
Oh..Had an accident involving a motorbike on Wed. Not my fault. The stupid guy ran through a red light. Anyway, H was supposed to be on his way to Europe...but he was thoughtful enough to cancel his trip to be with me, as I was quite shaken-up by the accident.
We were in bed last night. I was reading and there was an article about "smart men tend to cheat" and H was like "Of course. I am surprised that you don't know that!" Anyway, I was grouchy throughout the article, and then we sort of chatted and touched on the subject of affairs etc etc..and stupid H playfully said "one thing that i can promise you is that I will die with you next to me!" I was like "yeah right. when you are old and grey and ill and you come back and want me to look after you!!". Then H laughed out loud and then said "You don't care what happens in between. But I promise you I will die next to you. Whether there is another person next to me is another matter! Ha ha".. He was chuckling..
