One reason why I am not so stern about his friendship with ow is also because we are now in Country X with H, and she is over in our home country. It's not that far, but still a 2 hour plane ride away. It's not impossible for them to meet, but much more difficult. So, their friendship now is sort of "long distance". Plus H has now moved into a different industry from ow, and in time, they would have less and less things in common. less and less things to discuss.
But if we were to move back to our home country...then I think my insecurities would start and I am not sure if I can remain so composed.
