Cat03...., We have had many many arguments about his friendship with her. And he is rather adamant that she is HIS FRIEND. Whenever I voice my disapproval or unhappiness about this particular friendship, we would be arguing again. So, I've tried not to touch on the subject. When I am in a good mood..I would say "Oh..Good. Invite her to dinner at our house then." and that would instantly shut H up.
He keeps on saying that they are just friends. Although I do think that H is thinking that she is a FRIEND, somehow, i feel ow may still be thinking that it would be something more.
I know most of us would feel that I should be stern with H with regards to his "friendship" with ow... but I can't control him, right? He has got to be the one to end the so-called friendship. With me giving an ultimatum or pushing him to do something he is not ready will make him feel that he made the wrong decision to come back. So, I can only hope and pray that in time, he would feel that this "friendship" is not worth sacrificing our R.
