wow, jeez, well, all our sitchs are different. A fews after I found out about the reality of the A I told him I'd never ever wanted him to talk to her nor communicate w/her at all. When he came back, did you guys discuss that?
It is something that he's able to tell you she called, but about them being friends I wouldn't be confortable w/that. Have you told him that ANY communication w/her makes you ill?
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.