Quote: You think he has sort of moved on and does not want me to remind him of his wrongdoings and thus his guilt?
YES and double YES!
Yoyo, have I not been enough of a horrible example about finding out stuff my H thought/said to Ow? I now see how foolish I was by coming out of left field to my H with the new "info" i'd find, and why did he say this and that... *SIGH*
Our H's are trying to move on but we dont' let them, we can't expect them to appologize for every little thing they did, as HH post on my thread "there is no sin scale, the WHOLE A was wrong" we need to stop disecting it because we are only hurting ourselves, as I type this I'm working on that, to let go, to forget my H's love letters of how pretty soon he wouldnt' have to leave her side to come watch our kids, that it wasn't going to be like that for long (guess he was doing the separt. paperwork at the time)
ITS OVER, they are w/us, WE have them w/us, not those inmoral sorry excuses for women. The whole A was wrong, every single detail. I was also warned by my H not to go into the room where I found all that crap that did so much damage, listen next time ok yoyo?
Hope you are behaving now, bet you are having fun... after a brazilian (you brave woman) your H should be plenty happy
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
