Rachel,

I am feeling pretty darn good today as well. We are working hard every night and weekend to finish our basement rec room, wet bar, hot tub room, and billiards room. What a task but it will be so cool when it is done. I have got a new phrase that I like better than "marital bliss". How do you like "marital harmony"? Bliss implies a euphoric state and we all know that those don't last but harmony seems attainable longer term. I truly feel harmony today with my R. We are having fun again. Just little stupid things but enjoyable none the less. Things are great even when I sense some guardedness from my W. We are both trying and that is what matters. We have a busy construction weekend planned but a very "fun" couple of weeks after that.

I really need to stay out of the other areas of this BB. There are some really screwed up sits that are going to cause many people much pain and for a long time. I just posted to one and told him a lot of what I have told Kaw. Similar sit. I really feel for him because he is where I thought my sit was going.

I think I am done here for the week. You all should have a good weekend because I am telepathically beating sense back into the brains of all of your WAS. Let me know how well it worked on Monday!

TBONE