glad to hear you are doing well and that H is trying to make amends! how great
Quote: You cannot make someone love you. But you can make yourself such as to be loved
That's my motto too, I'm trying to look at myself and think "would the person I'm being now make my H want to love me? to be w/me and yearn to be with?" not yet, still exorcizing some demons and little crap, but that will be my goal every day, so when I see him I have the right mental attitude.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.