Hey Cat03... Thanks for your input. Yes, I know that I need to let go. Harping about things will not change the fact that the A happened. It will just be an obstacle to piecing. I know H is trying, and I know that I need to be less sensitive...
Life has been pretty hectic the past week... Managed to get older son into same school as younger one. That is one headache off... Shuffling boys to and fro from school, making meals etc etc. But did managed to squeeze in a facial yesterday and a massage today!
H took me into his office to introduce me to his coworkers.. One thing that did irk me abit, was when one lady asked me if I have quit my job at XYZ company. I was gobsmacked as H and ow worked together at XYZ company. H actually introduced her to his new coworkers.. I asked "you brought her up and introduced her as your wife?", he sort of gave me a very vague answer. At that point, I was showing some faces, and H said "pls don't show me that face". It would have gotten worse if we did not bump into his boss. Oh well.. H then showed me off and gave me a peck before he left me. Then H called later "you know what? the Secretary actually said to me "let me tell you a secret. Your wife much prettier than ow"" ...I guessed that was good... that came out.
H was supposed to have dinner with coworkers, but cancelled and came back and he was still saying "apparently, everyone was talking about you, about you being pretty..." and all this while grinning away...
I asked "you brought her up and introduced her as your wife?", he sort of gave me a very vague answer. At that point, I was showing some faces, and H said "pls don't show me that face". It would have gotten worse if we did not bump into his boss. Oh well.. H then showed me off and gave me a peck before he left me. Then H called later "you know what? the Secretary actually said to me "let me tell you a secret. Your wife much prettier than ow"" ...I guessed that was good... 
