Is Yoyogirl Piecieng???

[cat03]

Yes, I know I need to remove ow out from our lives and move forward. But it is rather difficult when little things are still right in front of me. How could I avoid? There's her futon, her dining set, etc etc... Just today, I asked H where our power drill was and he said "told you already.. it's in her house"... and I said "it's a drill that belongs to my parent and you give it to people". and H replied "what give? I was using it..". I left it at that, and a second later, H said "should we have dinner out tonight??" ... guessed he is trying to keep the sitch calm ?? He has been quite good I guessed...

There a LOT of little things I could be mad at H for, our wedding frame he'd plan to use for a pict of her, our tray table I use daily he used to make her breakfast and for outings, the table I got that he used for a dinner w/her.
I could go on and on, and everytime I'd bring it up he'd absolutely be 100% guilty..and what does make me? vindictive and spiteful, he's already appologize and I would turn myself into this unforgiving person who just wont' let go.

I know you are stressed honey, and it's easy for you to lash out at your H, in my frustration I've taken it out on kids (no hitting, just being harsh). We need an outlet for our anger.
It will be over honey, this crazy move, prove yourself that in the worst times you can control yourself, have at least 1hr in between the day where you sit with a cut of tea and close your eyes, you'll do fine