Cat03 - Thanks for your advice. I will check into your thread in a while. Things have been really hectic. Packers over at the house for three days,...finding out S9 didn't get into the same school, plus the stress of moving into the new country is really eating me.
Flew into Country X on Thursday. Was shuffling between schools on Friday, attempting to get S9 into the school..Unfortunately to no avail.. Have to register him in another school, but they needed school records before anything could be done.. The originals are in transit somewhere, therefore, I have to get copies from the original school. *sigh* Was so stressed up yesterday that I called and ranted and raved at H... some little tiff between us, but when we got home later, he did try to "sweet talk" me... Well, it's the weekend now, so gonna relax ... because one Monday, the madhouse starts...
Yes, I know I need to remove ow out from our lives and move forward. But it is rather difficult when little things are still right in front of me. How could I avoid? There's her futon, her dining set, etc etc... Just today, I asked H where our power drill was and he said "told you already.. it's in her house"... and I said "it's a drill that belongs to my parent and you give it to people". and H replied "what give? I was using it..". I left it at that, and a second later, H said "should we have dinner out tonight??" ... guessed he is trying to keep the sitch calm ?? He has been quite good I guessed...
My mom told me to not mention ow again... and she said "don't bring it up again. I am sure he will be fed-up if you do. Don't say ...I would be fed-up. If you don't bring her up, I don't see that you guys will argue, and I know he will not start an argument out of nothing".. I guessed that's true. ...