I'm glad to see that things are heading in the right direction for you. I agree with you in regards to the table...sell it and with the money get something new that you picked out!
Quick update on my sitch. H came by for a visit last week and we ended up having s*x. Since then he has been calling me non-stop and wants to spend the night with me Saturday night. He told me he felt there is still something there between us. I myself don't feel it. I'll just wait and see what happens Saturday...I will need to have a major talk with him if I want to give us another try.
Best wishes to you and your family on your move to Country X.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years