bonfire..j/k are you sure stuff still there? I agree w/the above, if your H for some strange reason hauls that stuff w/you I'd either dispose of it quietly or ask him w/a blank face if he wants to ship that out.
I also had a thing that bothered me dealign with addresses, my H hasnt; yet change his address. When I confronted him at C he just said he had not thougth about it and that he got his mail anyways (I mentioned how that issue made think he was hiding something.)
Maybe there is a reason he did that, or, he just didnt' think about it. After a while I'd calmy and off handedly bring it up.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.