Hello Cat03.... Yeap. I'm sure he doesn't use his brain that much, since it's already sort of mushed up from the alien experiments and all.

Nothing much happening since my last post. Have been really busy at work, sorting out documents so that work can be handed over to my coworkers... Monday, 31st July will be my last day at work!!! Oh..and I got myself a new laptop...since i would have to give my current one back to my company... not to mention my company car on Monday too... plus I would no longer be a salaried worker. BUT guessed I would have to look at the positive..that I would be embarking on a new M with H... that it will be a new beginning and that we will have a better M.

H has been communicating rather frequently, both via texts and phone calls. My last visit to Country X, found a house that I really liked and we gave the agent an offer. But we could not agree on the owner's terms. So, I guessed we are not getting that house... H said that he would be visiting his bosses house tomorrow, and most likely we gonna "inherit" his house as he is vacating next week. I guessed.. a house that is good enough for H's boss, should be good enough for us. We'll see how things goes. The pro is also that we would be able to move into this house ~ mid-August vs. if we would have taken the house from the agent, we would only be able to move in end-September... So the "bosses house" would be good so that school bus' schedule can be set at the beginning of the school year and need not be changed...

Having a party for older S tomorrow. He will be turning 9 next week! My little baby is turning 9! How time flies... H can't make it back for S9's birthday party. He said he had to finalize some contracts on Monday and would have to work over the weekend. Oh well... S9 spoke to him yesterday and he was like "Awww dad. I want you to come back for my birthday. I BEG you..." Well, am sure H felt mightily guilty. And today, my MIL came over for dinner and she told me that S6 asked her "Are you coming to your grandson's birthday party tomorrow?" and MIL said "Of course" and S6 said "Well, YOUR SON is not coming back". MIL thought that was rather amusing. I related the incident to H this evening, and he found it rather funny too.

Well, at first, was supposed to meet H in Country Y on Tuesday, but because of the contract thingy next week. He has been told not to travel next week. So, rendevous in Country Y is out. H did ask me to come over on Tuesday and perhaps fly back on Friday. Checked the flights today, and it is kinda pricey... H also said that he would come home next week... So, most likely I will not go visit him in Country X next week... Current Plan is to perhaps fly to Country X with H the following Sunday, i.e. 6th August and sort out boys' school over in Country X etc etc. Come back home. Sort out the movers etc. And lug the boys over to Country X ~ 22 Aug for start of school on the 28 Aug. BUT plans always change!!!! Not gonna bother so much.

One thing that is constantly at the back of my head is that ow's stuff are still sitting in the store in the current house in Country X. I really don't want her stuff to follow us when we move into the new house, i.e "bosses' house". You think I should ask H what he intends to do with her stuff?????

And another thing that is also bugging me is that H renewed his ID card (something like social security card) in January of year... and he put in ow's address on the card. It's such a bad bad reminder of the A ..that H wanted to leave the family, and be with ow!!! He had her address!!!!! What should I do? Should I casually ask H about it now? Or should I wait till I have moved to Country X, settle in and when I "sort of" happen to see the ID, then only ask H about what he intends to do with that ?? Or WHAT??

How should I deal with these????