Cat03 & Kismet - Hiya gals..nice to have you drop in my thread... You know, with all that's happened to us, although we consciously tell ourselves to DBING, being humans, we sometimes just act crazily and go out of whack with our DBING efforts. I actually did the NO-NO on Saturday (15th). Luckily it didn't back-fire and undo all the positives. H told me that he was going to Europe...and I actually texted him on Saturday and asked where he was, and if he was in our home country. Immediately, H called me and said "Do you want me to get the waitress to speak to you in the foreign language? I swear to you... blah blah blah". I said "makes no difference, right. She could be with you over there blah blah blah"...there was to-and-fro convo, and at one time, H did say "please don't make me beg over the phone...".. and he said "you are not sure with coming over? I promise you that things will be okay. I've not said promise before, but I am promising you. ok?"
Anyway, after I've calmed down, I texted him "Okay. I will be calm and happy". And he texted back "Ok Good. Then I feel better. She is on her way to the US...you can check with your contacts.I'll show you my passport to show you i'm no where near US...in fact half the world away. So calm down ok?? All will be ok."
So, I guessed I am lucky this time. When I told my mom, she actually told me off. She said that I shouldn't even ask...I've accepted him back..I cannot show my distrust every time he goes away for business as it would ruin things. My girlfriend actually said the same thing...
