Not sure about you, but I know my feelings and emotions have sabatoged my best interests more than not. Detatchment allows you to see objectivly, then it doesnt appear to be so bad. Its not so bad, but it sure is easy to get wrapped up in, and forget who the hell we are in the first place. Hmmmm. Ive had to grow up big time, and I have more to do. Ive become more secure in myself, I grew a spine (and i still keep my mouth shut... I dont need to tell her, she can figure it out for herself.), I believe in myself regardless of what she does or doesnt do. Its different for all of us, but even when I can fake myself into feeling this way, I feel good about my situation despite her short comings. Hang in there.
