Tbone, So you cann't walk on water!...welcome to the club called the human race... No need to beat yourself up over this. Let it go. You will stumble now and again...but you know it doesn't work, so now its time to concentrate on not making a pattern out of it.
From your last post it is pretty plain your W is still working thru her issues. Lots of waffling about her mistakes. She continues to work through them, but at her pace ... not yours. Hang in there. If you are willing to see this through based on her timeframe, I'm willing to make a wager on ya!