Been catching up on the most active threads since I'm back from vacation. There definately seems to be a common thread running thru them lately (Does anyone else see it?). Most (Me included) seem to be having trouble accepting our S refound commitments to M and worry that their S is only acting "As-If" things are fine. This is truly an ironic reversal of roles!! Why are we having such a difficult time accepting our S 180?!!
Tbone, You seem to be the only one who is getting a handle on this. Wish I had you resolve. You are right on when you responded on my thread about just be concerned with spending the best you can w/ S now. Ironically, I gave the same advise to Rachael M on her thread, but I called it "living in the moment". However, the doubts seem to return despite ourselves. Are missing something here? Perhaps, for a period of time, both partners need to act "As-If" the R is the way they want it before it becomes reality?
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