tbone I feel alot the same way even if I am D.She still spends more time with me then when we were seperated and she has bought all kinds of things for my house.XW did tell me yesterday that her and a girl friend was taking the kids on vacation.That sucked she just said something about that the girlfriends H couldn't go so:and she kind of dropped it.I just told her that if she decided she wanted me to go to let me know.We went on vacation a while back and both our families went together and had a great time so I was hopeing that she would include me but I will have to see.My XW to wants her cake and to eat it too.She got mad friday and moved a little bit of her stuff and then the next day it was back to normal and we spent the weekend together,there is still no touching or anything like that and she still makes it clear that we aren't an item but she says we have to work on our friendship so I guess I'm just like everyone else and will wait as long as I can.