ME 2; I've tried for the past 11 months to get over the words you said to me on harlequin's thread of nov 20, 2001...but the hurt just won't go away. Considering we didn't know each other, how could you define me like you did? I was new then...I'm not so new anymore. your words were unnecessarily hurtful, and mostly untrue. For a seasoned poster, i would have expected more finesse. Of all that answered me, only you were 'unkind', to say the least.
I can still cry over your words, and I'm tired of it. So...I'm giving your words back to you, to do whatever you want with them. They're no longer mine!
posted October 20, 2001 01:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Me2: Sharli- I never said you didn't have the right to tell me to mind my own business...in fact I think I said go ahead (the whole thick skin reference). L Dear Me2 I'm the one who should mind their own business! I'm not thick skinned...sometimes I have no skin at all...so, I've been too willing to accept anybody else's assessment of me. I thought I was getting better...but if I were, I could accept Cathy's words about not internalizing what everyone says to me. Instead I obsessively keep reading this thread over and over again! . You said: "You are like a rabbid dog with a bone. You are making an ass of yourself. Complete and total ass. You come off as a shrew, full of hatred and contempt for anyone who sees things differently than you do. You are offensive and caustic. Over and over again I have seen hateful people come here and be treated with respect and kindness ......I've seen some folks finally get it but every once in a while there are those like sharli. Yes, the word "sicko" is abusive when used to describe one that is suffering from a psychological disorder. It is also abusive when the person it's directed towards takes it as such. It just seems to me, and a lot of others, that your opinion is always rife with sarcasm, bitterness and open hostility. I think MaryC2 did a very good job of trying to help you-and you in turn were terse, nasty and sarcastic in your reply. She was only trying to help. you antagonize pretty much everyone and open yourself up time after time by your cynicism and anger. And true to your nature Sharli-you blasted her by saying 'ewww, now I don't like you anymore'. Wow. Very mature. She sure hit in on the mark when she said you attack and hold anyone in contempt that doesn't buy your BS."
You're right about one thing...I can't forget the hurts that were never apologized for!
