I say its great he went to C on his own accord becasue HE wanted to get help for HIM. Ya gotta love that move. Positive to say the least. I know what you meam about the "feelings" you get. I get them too. Mine are all messed up with the lack of trust so sometimes I don't feel as though I can trust him at all, but the OVERALL feeling is that I can. The way he's been acting it can't be a lie-nobody, even a louse would act and say the things he's been doing and saying and have it be a lie. He couldn't live with himslef I wouldn't think. I woud be able to see patterns of behavior adn the only patterns I see are positive for the most part with a few days of distancing once ina while buit not too often. We'll see if my theory of him distancing every week on Tuesday or wed. holds up. SO far he's been great today so we'll see how tomorrow goes. You do have great kids Mattie, what would we do without our kids to help keep us strong? Keep us posted! Rachael M.
