Emily, I agree with GH. Your daughter means everything to you. Personally, I could live without my H (although I wouldn't like it), but I could not live without my kids. As much of a pain in the A$$ they are at times, I love them so much it hurts. Be there for your daughter; for both of them. I belive if your H could, he would. Please don't hold this against him. Take care of yourself and your kids. We are all here for you!