Thanks Andy-I'm hopin your right on this one-especially that he does not covet her anymore. Idon;t think he does either but 2 1/2 yrs is a long time to be in a R withsomeone. SHe was OBVIOUSLY meetting some pretty heavy duty needs in him. What makes it all go away so suddenly-I mean the desire to work on the M and then the decision to dump her? My fear is she still is in him. That's what I can't seem to get past.That and I still don't trust him as far as I could throw him most days just because the betrayal felt so HUGE to me and lasted so long. HE did initiate over the wekend. I have no idea if its becasue he really wanted me or just felt it was the "right " thing to do. ALl this will take a long time to sort out and inthe meantime I will probably drive you all nuts with my obessions and mistrust. I'm just not as graciuous as alot of people on this board. I'm damn mad he did this to us and I don't mind saying it. He sounds so darn convicing though and you Want so bad to believe them, and youwonder if your being played for a fool or if he really has come back and is trustworthy. Youjust don;t know and it's hard not knowing. Rachael M.
