you know you should ask yourself one question honestly
what would i do if he did not want to work out our m and stay with ow. how would i feel about my r would i want to save this and forgive him easier and want him to take my forgiveness and come back to me and then everything would be fine? emily, you seem to be in the control stage, he has chosen you, NOT HER, so please forgive him if that is what you truly want to do, sounds to me like you dont want to forgive him, you want to hate him for what he did and MAKE HIM PAY. answer my question and live by it, either forgive him and work out your marriage or hate him for what he did and end it. either way its your choice, just live by what ever choice you make, it affects you, your kids, and your husband, but the choice has to be made. if you dont soon he will and what will that choice be for him, are you ready to accept that choice he will eventually make, if you push him to make that choice? think about it!!
