Quote: So re-phrased "I am not part of my Hs problem. Therefore, I cannot be the solution to Hs problem." You cannot control him.
Thank you Santhony (so sorry for your sitch by the way . . you are in my prayers!) your post as usual sent me crying.
I know that I can't make him stick to his words. I can't influence the things he does. I promise I realize that. Maybe I am still to focused on working on this stuff because I want my M to work (at least from my end.) but isn't that why we're all here?1?!?!?
It would be much easier for me to decide what to do with myself if it weren't for my H. I know that I'll get a good shaking for that . . . but it's the way I feel. The only answer I can come up with to answer Amy's question is
I don't know . . . I don't know what I want to do. I don't even really know how I am as a person. I've spent to much time losing my identity . . .
