AmyC and GH have this nailed down. We have all been telling you this and believe me we all know it is easier said than done. But you must focus on yourself and what you want. Read - reread - reread - reread what AmyC and GH wrote - it is wisdom. Then take action and stick to it!
((((((Emily))))))
You know I wrote to you before, "I am not the problem. Therefore, I am not the solution." This statement is TRUE only in regards to your H. So re-phrased "I am not part of my Hs problem. Therefore, I cannot be the solution to Hs problem." You cannot control him.
YOU are - however, part of YOUR problem. Therefore, YOU and ONLY YOU are going to be the solution to YOUR OWN PROBLEMS.
