Forgiveness?????

[RBinBR]

I snooped WAY before he put the wedding band back on.
Not that that makes it OK . . but I looked in his phone when he first got here.

So you've been waiting for your H to come for a visit for a long time, and one of the very first things you do is snoop to see if he called the OW recently? For crying out loud, did you even give him a hug at the door first before you let your insecurity take control of your body?

Emily, when I did the comprehensive sitch review for you, I was afraid of this. You are completely stubborn and unwilling to change, and you hide that stubborness behind your low self-esteem and tell yourself and us that you CAN'T change. That's a total crock of BS.

You actually sound just like my W, who's said repeatedly that she's continuing her A because she just can't control herself. That's a LIE. You can control yourself.

This is my last post to you until you actually DO something to change, instead of just talking about it.