Quote: He was still wearing his wedding band when the PA happened though . . so I guess it's NOT a huge deal that he put it back and took it with him. He probably takes it off when he gets halfway down there and puts it back on when he comes to visit.
I haven't posted because quite frankly, I don't quite trust myself to but THIS, I could not let slide.
If you want to see any kind of breakthrough in your relationship with your husband the first thing you need to learn is how to let your mouth work FOR you and not AGAINST you. You can speak negativity until it becomes a reality and you Emily, are well on your way to perpetuating your own misery.
Try for once to believe that not everything that comes out of your husbands mouth is a lie. Don't do it for him. Do it for yourself. Might you get hurt? Sure, you might. THAT is the risk. Take it or walk. But stop torturing yourself AND your husband.
At this point, YOU are just as much to blame for ANYTHING that happens from here and I don't mean because you aren't pretty enough, either. I mean because you don't have SENSE enough to change for the better and take control of this situation.
