But that wasn't good enough. You still had to snoop? Emily, you are your own worst enemy.
Quote: He told me that the reason he had the PA was because he was so lonely . . . and since he and I were living seperately without a way to live together he thought we'd never really get back together . . . so he tried to fill the gap somehow. He said it didn't even fix the problem he was trying to fix.
And it also wasn't good enough for you that he found out the hard way that the A wasn't worth it. Perhaps you need to think of this from his point of view for a change and how hard it probably was for him to practically admit to you that he was an idiot.
Quote: I did look in his phone and although her number wasn't in his contact list anymore . . it was in his outgoing calls on July 3rd.I confronted him about it
After he put his wedding band back on and confided in you what a mistake he'd made...you still disrespected him like this? I hope you see now that this was wrong and it can NOT happen again.
Quote: My H put his wedding band back on.
And that right there is what we come back to. Emily, he put his wedding band back on.
You are not in high school anymore and high school manipulations are not going to cause you to "keep" the guy. You'd better grow up fast. When a real woman wants to keep her man, she works SMARTER Emily, NOT harder.
Hope the rest of the visit goes well for both your sakes.
