RBinBR, I completely agree with the majority of your analysis and I think you did a pretty complete job of digging into Emily's real situation.
I waa also starting to see the same patterns in the relationships, many of which I have SEEN IN MY RELATIONSHIPS. Thanks for articulating it as well as you did.
Emily, A lot of what has been said is not meant to be hurtful - it's meant to help you to look into YOU and see how to make EMILY's life work. I would strongly suggest you re-read RB's posts and REALLY think about what is going on in your life, and in your husbands life.
Then, ask questions. You've got RB, me, AmyC and severla others who are HERE FOR YOU. We don't judge you, we tell you the truth in as loving a way as possible. And, you can't hurt our feelings nor can you ever make us hate you.
You're pretty safe here. And you're not alone.
There are some things I want to add to RB's posts a little later because he makes some excellent points, and a lot of them are relevant to MY life too so I can relate to how they must be affecting YOUR life.
We care. You are so blessed to have found this place, just like we have been blessed to find you. Together we will all grow from the experience.
