Quote: I apologize if you addressed this in an earlier post, but what is his family situation? Are his parents divorced or in a bad M? What previous R's did he have before you? I do think understanding "why?" is important
His parents are married but his father doesn't show love in any normal way. And his parents frequently go through "divorce cycles". Where his father tells his mother he wants a D (although he never really acts on it). It's not a totally happy marriage. It's very disfunctional.
He didn't really have many serious relationships before me. A couple different highschool girlfriends. He and I got together his senior (my junior) year in highschool. We were each others first lovers if you will !
Quote: More questions for you: do you think your H still considers you attractive? Did you ML much when you were pregnant? I'm asking because your H has basically said that the A was about sex.
Yes he tells me all the time he thinks I'm beautiful. When I mentioned that he must think I'm ugly to be with her. He said NOT at all he even said he didn't find her attractive and didn't really know why he "chose her". YES . . .we ML as much as we could (since he was up to visit every other week for 2 or 3 days that's the only time we got together). My sex drive throughout this last pregnancy stayed VERY high.
THANKS for the advice and for responding. . . feel free to ask ANY question I will gladly answer!
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