This is relevant . . . I quoted this from myself from my other post! Just thought of this today! Looking for opinions
Quote: My negatives are about the PA . . . obviously what else do I think about
He has Lesley's (which is a cousin of Cassie (the OW)) phone number. OK that's fine . . . we've been friends with her since before Felina was even born. BUT . . . now that I am thinking about it. . . he had told me that Cassie and her mom lost their apartment and I know that Cassie sometimes used to stay with Lesley . . sooooooo I bet that's where she's staying . . OF COURSE HE WOULDN'T have Cassie's number in his phone. I'd be suspicious of that . . . but to have Lesley (who he told me had been looking for a "drinking buddy" and that's how he ended up with her number again). . . .
well I bet that's how he contacts the OW . . . I bet that's where he goes to see her. I bet it's really not over at all.
I wish I could ask him about all this. . . but of course that's against the rules and it would only make him mad . . . probably because it's the truth.
I just want to be able to be totally honest and open with him . . . I want to be able to tell him what I am thinking and have him reassure me that that's not the case at all. I just wish that I could at least have that.
