I really can understand your need to contact this woman. I remember how much it helped you when you confronted the XOW. I know you will think about it before you take action. But I believe that you have to do what you feel will help YOU!! You have had a lot to deal with and you have given 100 % to your H and your R but you have to give something to MATILDA!! What's going to make her feel good? What's going to help her deal with this? I have battled with the thoughts of confronting the XOW as I have told you before. I still every once in a great while have this "dream" of having a nice long conversation with her but I still know in my heart that I really don't need to. It has been so long now I wouldn't want to give her the satisfaction of knowing that I still think about her!! Everyone is different. I honestly believe that meeting her face to face was not the best thing for me or in God's plan or we would have run into her those 3 times we went to her "hang out". When she wouldn't talk to me on the phone there was nothing more I could do and I took all this as a sign that it "wasn't meant to be". I know that you have faith in God and you pray about your R. So continue to do that and if it's the right thing for you to do in confronting this W I know that He will show you the way. FOLLOW YOUR HEART & YOUR INSTINCTS!!!! Take care! Your Friend,PAT
