Yeah, I think my H is finally getting it, too. I did mention yesterday that there is no way they could continue to be "friends." He agreed, said, "No, no. No way." The whole thing is just one more embarassment/humilation that he has to suffer. Boy, he better be getting it by now.
I'm absolutely certain that she called yesterday hoping he say how miserable he was and that he missed her and wanted to continue on with her. She had no other reason for making contact with him.
I am struggling right now with the need for me to contact her. I want her to know that because of her my kids had to find out what their father has done. I was able to keep things from them in the past, but she was the last straw. Because of her, he now has to face his children's loss of respect. She has no children. She had nothing to lose by playing games with my H.
I also want her to know that my H has been in an emotional crisis for 2 years and that she was simply an escape for him. She did nothing for him except make his life more miserable as he got more and more confused. There are many things I'd like to tell her. I know everyone here will tell me to forget her. She's not the problem, just a symptom. But, you all know how I feel, I hate to let people get away with things. It did make me feel S-O-O-O good when I confronted OW #1. It was something I needed to do for myself.
