MATILDA ...I am really happy to read that those "pesky little sex problems" have vanished!! Seriously though,it really looks like things are on the right track and there is light at the end of that long dark tunnel you were both in for so long!! I am so happy for you!!!!
Cannot believe that woman had the "balls" to call and even quote scriptures!! Geez,she sounds like she isn't playing with a full deck!! Anyway,sounds like your H handled it very well and it is a good sign that he told you all about it. I thought back to the time when my H broke off his A and then she had the nerve to write and ask him if they could still be "friends". And then my idiot H sees nothing wrong with that!! I gave him an earful about that and I think he finally "got it"!! I wonder sometimes what goes on in the minds of these women!! "FRIENDS" my A**..they are hoping that things will go wrong again with the W and they will still have a hold on the H!! They are also thinking that things couldn't possibly be as "great" as the H is telling her if he is still in contact with her!! When I told my H that,he said he never thought about that but it made sense...well duh-h-h-h!!!! Sounds to me like your H "gets it" and I feel that he will continue to be honest with you and will tell you when he hears from her. One thing he might consider is,if she continues to call him,he could tell her if it doesn't stop he will contact her H and tell him. Her H says he loves her and he has forgiven her but wonder if he'd keep feeling that way if she won't leave your H alone!! It's like I told my H..if the contact doesn't stop,I cannot continue to work on our R no matter how much I love him and in spite of the fact I did forgive the A!
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