Matilda...So very happy to hear that you H has taken that step toward getting the help he needs!! I know that his getting an appointment with a C made you feel happy and relieved!! As for the one-on-one with you H and your mom...not too sure your H needs that right now! Maybe you should see how he feels about it. He already has enough guilt going on I'm not sure he needs to hear your mom tell him how he has effected everyone else. But that decision I think should be his.

You have come such a long way and things are really turning around in your R. I am so very very happy for you!! I know there is still a long way to go and a lot of work to be done. Just take it one day at a time and remember that everyone here is with you all the way!! You are in my prayers every night! PAT