However, I'd urge you to take Lily's advice and start your own thread in the Newcomers forum. I can see that you're posting snippets of your story on a few threads, and if you pull it all together in one place, people will be able to follow you better.
Tree and I are both from the Ottawa area. We're trying to get together next week, along with Stephanep - probably downtown. If you want some up close DB coaching, I'm sure they won't mind if you join us.
In the mean time, don’t worry if your husband is a little too comfortable with the status quo. It happens to all of us. You just have to concentrate on yourself. Break the paranoia. Lily’s great at figuring out ways to change your mind. Listen closely to what she has to say.
If you want to exchange email addresses, give me a post on my thread, and we’ll arrange it.
Hang in there YV. It ain’t easy at first, but you’ll get stronger and stronger. And most importantly, you will get your husband back.
