Thanks alot Lily for the responce. How do I get to ANS and TERESA. Do you have their e-mail addresses or where do I post to reach them. Right now I am trying to get the family together and then decide whether things have a chance. My husband is not too enthusiastic about coming out of his comfort zone. He has always been that way about venturing out but I am also worried that he might be involved with someone and does not want to break that tie. If he heard me he would say that I am paranoid and wrong and I may be but I really don't trust anything he says because he has lied so many times and I have been hurt too many times by him. But ultimately, we need to be in the same place. Thanks for the support.
