I am not too sure what the struggle is here or where anyone person is in life's struggle but I wanted to finally find a group of people who are seeking strength and peace like me.
I am 30 years old and my husband is 36. We have been together for about 16 years and married for five. We have two kids and our marriage is on the brink of divorce. I love my husband very much and I know that he loves me to, its just that there have been so much wear and tear and lost of trust, respect and commitment. I know I am still committed to making things work and I think that he is to but there's alot of frustration in the relationship. I am away in Canada trying to make a better life for us and he is back in the caribbean struggling with the bad economy, bad finances and sniffing young girls. He doesn't have me at the moment and I really don't trust him because of past experience. He now has the kids and is doing a wonderful job, but we have both had it. We cannot make things work in a long distance relationship, but there are so many issues to deal with before we could be in the same place. I do not want to go back to the caribbean without a job and I do not want him to come up to Canada without working. We need to get our financial situation under control but in the meantime the frustration keeps building up. I am faithful and want my family back together again but my husband has really had it and I am not sure what he wants. He is saying that he loves me and want to work things out but I don't trust him. Help me deal with the trust issues, please give me some advice on whether or not my marriage could be saved after you've lost love and trust, the most important ingredients in a relationship.
