Well thank you for your post, if nothing else it gives me hope that my XH and I might one day be more friendly than we are now.

So how long after your D did you and your XW start really talking? Like talking about things that mattered, not surface level stuff?

I am three weeks post D, and I miss him, and in my heart I know the reason he doesn't call and talk to me is because he will miss me if he does, but I don't want to "force" myself on him and push him away either.

Any advice about how to open lines of communication, postD?

Thanks!
R2