I am happy for you....I am sad for you.....I am scared for me.
I know how you felt before you found out about EA....like everything's right on track-SORT OF. I continue to feel that way but now it's easier to ignore. I still snoop sometimes but he was always very good at covering his tracks.....they say that rebuilding trust is a two way street, however, when H's are seemingly doing everything right-then the trust thing is more or less up to us...I still am not quite there.....I know you know what I mean.....
You certainly did handle it with dignity and respect (of yourself)...and you have really grown through this whole thing.
Take it slow. Be good to yourself. And take care of your kids.
H knows what he has to do here....(funny-my H and your H share a first name....) and I do feel strongly that this time-it's HIS thing.