MATTIE....just read your newest post and have to say that I came away with a much better feeling than I did on the one before!! I was so sad when I read that one!! This one sounded really promising!! Sounds like your H finally had a major "break through"!! I hope he will do the C thing...it may do him more good this time. I know the long talks were very therapudic for both of you! Sounds like you both really and truly communicated this time. You have been so very strong and I am proud of you!! I am happy that things have started looking up!! Let us know how things are going. Your Friend,Pat